I never quite know exactly how to start off a post. I mean, i start conversations with hello but i find it odd to be starting off with a hello if i were to be typing it out instead of saying it out. Irony in that, i actually found my introduction.
It has been a whole month since i last had a job. I’ve been doing so much cooking and baking and crafts and just doing all the things i want to do at my own pace and time, I might’ve become a little too attached to my freedom. I should look for a job soon seeing that i’m already broke and am in desperate need of clearing the term “bum around for a whole month” on my resume. My mum’s onto me but i’d rather be on rocks than tell her my boss left for China and so i’m jobless now. She wants me to get a job that pays well. The thing is, i need education and commitment and experience for it. All of which, i lack of.
It’s not that i’m not worried about my future but since i’ve already come this far and am actually in this situation, i have to make do with it to it’s fullest without compromising myself because god knows what happens when i try to not be too concerned about my mental health. My mum keeps saying that my dad tells me to start from the bottom and climb up and the reason we’re not going anywhere is because i refuse to do it and that i’m so full of myself. I never justify myself or explain myself because at my age, i’m just so used to being in this kind of situation that i find it so much easier to just shut up and let it pass then to fight her. My heart burns inside, but that’s nothing compared to the anger i would have had to deal with had i press it on further with her. Trust me on this, just let this pass.
I don’t mind starting from the bottom, i really don’t. The thing is though, bottom of what? I barely know what i want to do for sure. It’s driving me crazy. I’m 20 and i still don’t know what i want to do. Why don’t i have goals? Why don’t i have aims? I need to find something because the feelings of having and being nothing is like the lowest of lowest. Worst of all, it’s all a pity party up in here. All of it. I’m sick of it.
I was just popping by the grocery store for awhile when the white clouds were suddenly covered by the darker grey ones and i knew instantly that it was going to rain. I didn’t bring an umbrella and i wasnt even that far off so i knew i could’ve easily gone home to get one but i started to wonder why i needed one when i knew i’d be home anyway, where i could just change my clothes if i ever got wet? That’s when i started to realize something.
When i was little (actually, throughout my teen years as well, the change is quite recent), I’ve always loved the rain. When it raining really hard, Nat and i would jump at the chance to run to the playground and just mess around because playing in the rain gave us the greatest sensation ever. (Lily would join us too but as she entered secondary school, she got to cool for it.) When i go out, i hate carrying along those portable umbrellas cause they were pesky, but i soon learned that i needed them especially if i was on the way to somewhere. Me all drenched is not a sight i would wish upon anyone, not even my enemy. (Well, especially my enemy if there is one because i would presume they would use my unfortunate look to their advantage.) If i’m getting home though, i found no use for it whatsoever. It was useless, i could always bathe. Plus, if i were actually getting home from somewhere, i needed a shower anyway.
As i grew older (probably about two years ago), my perceptive changed. I started seeing the rain how lily saw it, and that is a nuisance whenever i was out. It was a blessing if i happened to be at home though, rainy days at home are still the best. Playing with rain started becoming totally unnecessary and foolish. Rather than coming home out and having to shower and then change, why not just stay dry and not have to go through that trouble? I started thinking about the consequence instead of living in the moment just like how i used to all those time.
Is that really growing up though, because if that is it then i’d rather remain a foolish, immature old ass bat. We’re all too busy thinking about the consequences that we forget sometimes living in that moment, for just that moment, is the best thing you can do. We compromise ourselves and stay dry, just so we have more time to do things we dread. We make room for unhappiness because we’re taught to think about consequences. We’re taught to not take a risk because falling is very painful and painful is bad when in actuality is that falling is painful, but painful is good. It means you’re alive, it means you’ve still got a chance and it also means that you can fall again because you’ve learnt how to pick yourself up again.
At some point in this post, we all anticipated that i was probably going to lose my sense of consciousness as the post gets longer and longer and i’m a little pleased to say that we have reached that point. It’s 4.33AM people, if i’m not reflecting on my life and creating meaningless worries to ponder on then what good is this insomnia for me?
Oh wells, i guess i’ll see you again.